Re: Re: David’s Guidance

[Joanie]

Dear Denise,

We see you are taking time to talk. Good. We feel this improves, or enables you to grow.

So, we have age. The spirit is funny. It believes what you, the conscious, 3D, middle self believes, yet it goes to a place of calm, resignation, acceptance till the 3D self is moved to a level of understanding. OK. How are you doing? We give you lots — lots to mull over or contemplate. Good.

Now, your daughter is taking the information and making a whimsical notion that the body, disintegrated, is not mom. “No! It’s gone! Where are you, (mom)?” So, she has to see the truth: The person is a body with a spirit inside. The spirit leaves. The body goes away over time. This is what you could say to her: “The spirit is fine. I’m here, always. I don’t go to sleep, disappear, never to visit or shake you in sleep so you know I’m there. (smile) I remain by you forever.”

Now, did you go too far? Nothing is wrong. You were “heart.” Your heart tried to let her know, “Hey. It’s OK. You are to learn this so you can grow. I love you.” Now, if you pushed her, saying, “I sure will croak and then death will overtake me. Then I’ll corrode,” you would surely terrify your love of a girl. We believe you did fine. I believe she thinks you are to remain with her. True? If she does, do you wish to keep her believing this? Or would you prefer she believe we all die, separate, yet remain together in spirit eternally? I believe you would like her to grow, yet you want her by you always. This is conflicted and you will need to figure why you do this.

Can you change her feelings? No. She is to do this for herself. You are to work with issues of your feelings and change so she shifts because you did. See? It’s a part of the Plan — to grow while she grows. See? See her grow as you grow, Denise. (Beautiful…)

Re: her going, staying, with or without you: You have to see, or do we mean, must. No, should. OK… can see if you choose to see that she will choose, not you. You are to be a mom who goes if she wishes Light. You see she can choose because she’s able to distinguish “heart and Love” from “ugly, old, dirty, Hate.” OK. Is she really able to distinguish Love from War? Pestilence from Monumental Joy? Active Hate from Love Everlasting? I believe — we believe so. Yes, Denise. Your daughter is very capable of figuring whether Love rules or Hate does. You cannot imagine the children able to do this? Yes. Possible. Very possible.

Getting her to go. It’s like pushing someone to eat a food they like. (smile) Do you see? That’s all I have to say regarding this. (smile) (Joanie’s note: David is shining Love upon you now.)

Teach her patience. She is impatient and wishes you are to teach her this. If you can guide her regarding waiting till she can have a chance at something, she can grow further. Now, what do you wish to teach her? Do you want religion to be a focus? (giggles) Do you wish empty stories of Love gone by? (giggles) Would you like her to know secrets — deep ones? (chuckles)

We think life is filled with lessons for her. You teach by example, having acquired knowledge through experience. All your teachings of Life include Love, Lust, Learning. They encompass mild-mannered ways versus brusk, abrupt ways to be. You model generosity, fun, kindness. All your words are to be framed so she hears Love, Forgiveness, Truth to Self and Others.

Now we ask, “What have you taught her so she would choose Light versus Dark?” If you answer this and see what you respond — actually look at what you answer — you’ll feel a sense of satisfaction. You accomplished much in the way of teaching your daughter Love, Denise. She blossoms by your watering her with goodness. You are the caretaker of the rose. She is happy. We love you and wish you such good moments, always, with her — your love.

Love, David, as always, the host; a few friends: Archangels Michael, Gabriel, Samuel, Auriel, Uriel, Raphael, the healer; Tremendous patience, Jesus has (smiles). Mother Mary loves you and your work, dear. Mary Magdalene is beaming. She is happy you like your job as mother — lover of daughter.

You are beautiful. We beam knowing the love you have for her. Thank you for loving her, Denise.

Always, Joanie, the scribe wishes to say you are a honeypie. (Joanie smiles) xo