Re: Re: David’s Guidance

[Joanie]

Denise, my dear,

You have written lots about how you fear all that exists in life. It is overwhelming to think fear is inside so much you live through each day. We challenge this notion: How do you drive? Play? Eat? Love? We say you are not fearing all the time. So, we say this as the record is straight. (smile)

The person writing fears when she’s not in control of the situation. “What situation?” A situation scary, confusing and full of disarray, and heavy to the heart — sad, cry, messed up silly sad type of situation. This gets her out of sorts. Then she says inside, “Why fear? It’s (scary, sad, whatever the situation) and I need to be above this.”

We share it because you, she, all the world on Earth fears. But, if you control fear and turn it upside down, out, around, you can eliminate it altogether. You are a person who can do this if you feel you can do it. If not, you will not.

Fear fabricates when one is lost, confused, sad, angry, scared, as well as hurt, both physically, emotionally, and spiritually. The fear presents itself when another greater, or better (healthier) emotion leaves. It displaces the calm for unease or disruption to occur.

Can you take a bread stick? Snap and listen. It breaks clean when you sit carefully and focus. If you snap hard, crash, crumble goes the object. We believe the bread stick is a representation of your fear that is possibly hard to break at first try. If you can focus and be determined to clean break the fear, you can do it. “Try, try again,” we urge you.

Now, let’s move to least resistance. Wow. Easy way, Denise. Not lazy. Just easy, we say. So, you want easy. Is this possible when you are doing many things simultaneously: Working, cooking, taking people places, etc.? We think easy is difficult if you want to face your fears. Easy is easy when easy is to be achieved. Easy is achieved if you can believe it is OK to remember why you are here to learn much about life.

OK. Easy choice vs. difficult reality facing decision making. I see ease is preferred. Why? Why is this preferred? Are you afraid? What to fear? Please tell me so I can understand your position. It is trying to believe that you are able to do this when you have not done it in a while. We think you are able, yet you are not able? Hhm.

We think “Strong” is your name, yet you do not believe it is so. How do we see you? We see you as a woman who walks, talks words of solid language, believes her Truth, and continues daily, working, laughing, enjoying herself till she sleeps at night. How do you see yourself?

You say you are fine — you want more. We believe this is very possible to achieve. Envision change. Make your movie reel of a man and woman who see eye to eye. Change characters, build sets, enrap yourself in clothing fit to be tied, and gather crews, ready for action. You are the star, the movie director, and the scene arranger. Please try to smile at the camera. (smiling)

We understand the marriage. Many are involved in relationships of this nature. You find yourself in a relationship that is OK, as you say, yet more is wished, or desired. Find moments to chat when he is alone. Tell him you love this or that, yet more is to be had if you can make it happen. Find things he might consider doing. This is a start. Then, remember to love him, shine Love, forgive, bless the soul, and wait. God’s servants, angels, assist. Many assist if they are beckoned to assist. Your dear mother asks you to come close so she could say, “I love you. Please try to imagine him sweet, kind, gentle. When he loves you, love him. He melts. You take care and love him. He’ll see warmth, comfort, in your heart. Here, he will take refuge if you allow him in.”

We notice you cry. This is OK. You can cry. We know she loves you and cares for you, Denise.

Care for him. Show friends that he is caring. Make it look good. You often paint the scenario as bad when many times it is OK. If he needs prodding, go prod. Find a way to encourage while you love him. This is better than criticizing him. He’ll see why you want change. Soften the approach. This will help greatly.

And if your life partner is this way till you part, it is so. Will you move from him? Do you wish another? Choices are made all the time. If you wish another, then it is a decision to make. All lives have choice. Job decisions, too. There are jobs and there are jobs. Which do you want: One that is fulfilling and remunerative, or one that is terrible and pays bills? In the economy you presently have, many stick with what they have till it’s retirement time or when they can leave for another that is mainly secure and pays bills. It is a reality today. Can you leave? If you can and find that all is secure financially, move to where you are happier.

Choice is key here. You choose your life arena before setting in the life you’re now in. You choose players, scenes and “Go!” — the life begins. Now, you choose variations on the main theme.

Whatever you decide, please know you control outcomes to a large extent. Many play, too, so variations on the theme are adjusted. Keep in mind your “co-workers” in the “Play of Denise.” They love to join and play, too, so your play is successful, filled with twists and turns.

We stop by saying that your play is absolutely brilliant! Fantastic! Marvelous! Outstanding! Couldn’t have written it better. (hug and laugh, smile)

Love, David, The Man Who Wishes Only Love, Light, Always, Denise, As You Journey Together With Your Husband. May your journey be bright, sacred, satisfying — all things beautiful.