Yes this is good!
When i have various issues from time to time with my ex and her opinionated partner, and at time various others, it is not taking me long to get over it,,,, nor am i returning their actions with judgments or negative ill feeling (well not for long anyway!),,, this is probably due to the fact i am embracing the concept of oneness with a deeper understanding i suppose……and what does this bring about ?……. peace !! 😀
The other option causes pain and blame and stress, which i guess closes you right down.
Its easy to go to war with some one who calls you a dick head, there was a time when i’d send in the tanks straight away!!
the trick is not to take one self so seriously.
Generally i have improved but i can shout loud at times!!! but i try.
Thanks Anica my resolve has increased…. on this Front! 😎