@jldy wrote:
I have come to the conclusion that you cannot heal someone unless they want to be healed. Theirs and old saying ” Misery Loves Company” and I have found that to be true. Some people instead of looking for help are looking for someone to drag down to their level. The problem I find is that by the time I realize this the damage is done and the recuer needs recuing. 😳
It seems some people are not happy unless they are unhappy which makes it impossible to help them. I no longer allow myself to be drawn in so far to someones problem that it becomes mine
I just want to say that those are some diamond words of wisdom, jldy. Wow. Nothing to add except my “+1” 🙂