Re: Re: Questions for Zingdad and Friends

[Zingdad]

Hi everyone

I must beg your indulgence. I really don’t have a lot of time to get to spend the time that I would like to on this. But I will keep chipping away and I do hope to get to everyone sooner or later.

Syme, you ask an important question. It’s one I get asked from time to time. You ask:
@Syme wrote:

I would like to connect directly with my Inner Self/Higher Self/God/Life/Guides/s etc.

For so long have I engaged in readings from people who are able to do this, Zingdad yourself, and my other favourite – Neale Donald Walsch, both of you have changed my life completely and has changed lives for those that are near and dear to me.

I know for everyone that this is a different process and works differently for different people and you need to do what it right for you. But I have not been able to work out what is right for me.

I get frustrated at times that when I sit still and ask for a conversation – nothing comes through.

I don’t want to talk about Life, The Universe and Everything, these are things that are covered well by Zingdad and Neale.

I wish to discuss my loved ones life purposes. To understand the paths that they are travelling and to offer assistance, if asked, how they can change things so that they do not drift off the path.

Make sense?

It fascinates me to read books like Robert Schwartz’s – to be able to delve into a person’s pre birth planning process astounds me and I feel I could bring so much more love and light into peoples lives if I was able to relay this information to them. It will also help me to understand my loved ones purposes in their lives, how it is that they are with me and I am with them. To be able to offer comfort in times of need.

I don’t want to connect for some self indulgent reason of self satisfaction.

My heart yearns to have a conversation for the betterment of others.

I know my Guide is waiting for me – I just want to say “Hello”.

Any tips?

Syme, I have a few thoughts to offer you.
The first is that there is nothing you have to do (or even can do) to persuade your Spirit Family (guides, higher-self, etc.) to make contact and have a conversation with you. They are not avoiding you. They are not playing hide-and-seek with you. When you talk to them they hear you loud and clear. When you ask questions they immediately answer. They love you more than you can imagine and they desire contact with you as much as you do with them.

If this is true, then why can you not hear them, right?

Quite simply because we chose to come here beyond the Veil where we are disconnected from them. This is what it is like to be here. We feel alone, we experience fear, we don’t know who we really are and we are disconnected from the Oneness. These things are a direct result of being here, beyond the Veil of Unknowing.

But clearly it IS possible to connect. There are many doing it in very public fashion. So what gives?

If we can take a step back then I’ll explain: The communication you yearn for is heart-to-heart, soul-to-soul communion. It is the method all beings of unity-consciousness use to communicate. It works like this: If you and I are One, then, at the level of Oneness, I can share anything with you. I can share a thought, a feeling, an idea, an experience… anything at all with you. Then my experience IS your experience. Then you know EXACTLY what I am trying to communicate with you. This is how higher-order spirit beings communicate. In your soul you remember communicating like this from before you forged your way down into these depths of duality. And the memory of this clear communication gives your a feeling of disquiet. It is somehow “wrong” that you can’t just connect with your most beloved Soul-Family and share with them all your ideas, feelings, questions, discussions, etc. How frustrating it is!

So what now?

There are a few paths you can choose.
The first path is to accept that this is “how it is”. You chose to be here and you did it for a very good reason. You came here TO BE HERE. So you can choose to experience BEING HERE as it is and find peace and joy in that. That is one very good approach. Does it satisfy you?

No?

It didn’t satisfy me either.

The next is to learn to listen in a new way. Your soul-family are constantly in non-verbal communication with you. In all kinds of subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) ways. Sometimes you are told to “slow down” when all the traffic lights are red. Sometimes you are given a message when a book falls open and there is a meaningful passage right there. Sometimes someone will say something to you that is an inspired message for you from your Soul Family. That is the kind of thing I am talking about. The point is to open yourself to what is given to you every day in a million ways. Pay attention and pay heed to what is offered to you. The more you do, the more clear and obvious the communications will become.

I very much do, do this. I open myself to communication and inspiration as much as I can. I find doing this makes me that much more “sensitive” to communication.

So good.

But you are asking for something a little more than this. Let me tell you what I know about direct, conscious, meaningful communication through the veil.

The first thing is that it can be done (obviously).
The second is that EVERYONE can do it.
The third is that there are two main “styles” of bringing info though – “conscious communication” and “trance communication”. In the former case you are there to ask questions and get answers etc. In the later case you go to sleep and your body becomes an instrument for a spirit being to talk though and you are not present for the process. I have nothing against trance channelling at all but I can’t speak about it from personal experience. I have only ever done conscious communication.
If you do conscious communication then you have to bear in mind that you are “there” to interfere with the communication. It is very easy to influence what you get. It is easy to pull what you are receiving out of shape with your own will, desires or preconceptions. It takes some practice to differentiate between what really comes from another being and what you want this other being to say. With conscious communication you also have the limitation that you can’t “receive” something that you can not think. For example: I could not receive in a language that I cannot already speak. I cannot receive complex mathematical equations in which I have no training. That kind of thing.
The fourth is that this will never, ever “prove” itself to you. To play this “game” is to actively choose to play with uncertainty and doubt. Any attempt to force “proof” will result in distortions in your communication and will most likely result in the whole thing being proved false. So, for example, asking your guides to tell you the number of the lotto will not work. Playing parlour games (how many stones in my hand, what is my cousins name, etc) will fail. You will probably get roughly statistically average results. You will probably get frustrated and lose interest.
But what if you have the ability to reside in that state of ambiguity and let it just be what it is and see what you can learn about yourself and life?
Well, then you might be in for an interesting ride!

But HOW? Right? You want to know how to do this in practical terms.

Well this part is the easy part. Doing it is a piece of cake. The actual DOING is definitly not the tough part. So let me give you one possible beginning exercise that you can do right now that will start you out talking to your Spirit Guide. Then I’ll talk about the “tough part” 🙂

1. Pick a relaxed day. Like a Sunday when you don’t have a lot of stress. Until you get comfortable with this you are going to want the minimum “psychic noise” in your consciousness.
2. Do something peaceful and relaxing like going for a long walk. Or better even, meditate.
3. Sit down somewhere that you will not be bothered or interrupted and where you feel comfortable and “at home”.
4. Set your intent. Light a candle or an incense stick as you declare with firm conviction a statement something like:
“I will now open my heart to communication from my Spirit Guide. This communication passes through the pure bright white light of the One and I permit no interference.”
5. Clear your mind and be at peace.
6. Take up the pen and write something to your Spirit Guide like
“Hello, are you there?”
7. Then, without hesitation, without thinking or pausing, simply put the pen on the next line and write the first thing that comes to mind. Like:
“Of course I am here. Where else would I ever be?”
Or whatever you get.
8. Repeat steps 6 and 7 for as long as you like.

And that is all there is to it.

More or less.

And now comes the “tough part”. Already you can see the problem, right? You are thinking “but I am just creating this whole conversation!”
Shall I tell you what 8 said to me when I told him that? He said “of course you are, but that doesn’t make it any less true!”

The truth is you ARE creating the conversation. It occurs in your mind. It is not possible to have the conversation without creating it. Right?

Then the next objection arrives: “But I am just having this conversation with myself!”
Yes. You are. There is only ONE of us here. Who else would you be talking to?

What is potentially miraculous about this process though, is that you are opening yourself to communication with a part of yourself that holds insight, truth and wisdom that you are not consciously aware of holding. It holds the potential to surprise and delight you. If you let it. If you are willing to go with it and allow for the ambiguity. If you are willing to PLAY. If you can resist the urge to get all serious about this. Then you might just allow yourself to show yourself some truly breath-taking truths and wisdom. If, on the other hand you get all serious about this or think it is IMPORTANT BUSINESS or if you wind your ego up around this you will, I assure you, feel the sharp end of the Veil. You’ll show yourself all the reasons why this is wrong, fake, self-delusion and doubtful.

So my suggestion is to play, play, play. Let it be just fun and light for a good while. Don’t concern yourself with “is it true” or any such thing for a while. Get comfortable with the process of receiving. Have wonderful conversations with your soul-family. Ask them everything under the sun. And Syme there is no reason whatsoever not to ask frivolous, self-indulgent questions! Ask because you want to know! This is your closest most beloved Family! They don’t need you to be all selfless and service-oriented about this! Have fun. Talk to them. Share everything with them. And then, as you go so you will find a kind of confidence in it. You will, by the “feel” of the thing, begin to know the difference between “clear, true communication”, “interfered with communication” and your own ego, desires and preconceptions getting in the way. This knowing will come to you. And then you’ll have a talent honed, practised and ready to use in service – if this is what you desire.

But these are just my thoughts and my perspectives on this subject based upon my experiences. I’m sure there are other ways to do this and other experiences that are equally valid.

I wish you a delightful journey of discovery!
~Z~