Dear John,
We see that you have thought about this and wish to change the way in which you manage your feelings and make decisions when another person asks for your assistance. Sometimes, this cannot be avoided because the person you know is in desperate need of loving care and guidance. We see you, however, as having slight, just slight difficulty determining what is great difficulty managing vs. difficulty managing.
When a person comes to you, you can tell if they are in great need of assistance when they tell you they have tried to help themselves and cannot. This is the cue for you to take. When a person says they wish your assistance, but they do not share they have tried to help themselves, you know you can choose to let them try out some options alone. It is the judgement call of a person like you that determines whether to involve themselves with those who wish to detach themselves from the workthorugh needed to get better, get happier, get richer, get lighter, brighter, smarter, and so on.
You know the drill. (smiles) Go inside and ask yourself, “Is this person someone I wish to help? Do they come to me with openness and ‘good references?’ ” I say “good references” because I term that to mean that one is true to themselves and to you, as well.
So, we have given you a bit to consider, John. We are always here and we wish you boundless Joy.
With Love,
David and The Divine Ones
