Well, Zingdad, I will say that I have not felt that my role was ever to rescue another or save them or, in fact, heal them. Since I began social work training in 1985, I entered sessions knowing that some people would tug at my heart strings. I knew that I could not carry another’s burdens. This was not my role. As I worked more and more, it became quite apparent to me that my role was to educate, support, and offer “tools” that others might not currently possess in their life’s “tool box.”
Now, as a healer, I bring this mindset with me. I continue to have clear boundaries where I can see where I end and another begins. This does not mean that I choose not to feel or receive another’s words or energies. It simply means that I am clear about my role as an assistant and I choose to support one’s self-healing without feeling encumbered — laden by grief or concerns. My facilitation of healing messages, of Light, of Divine messages channeled, offerings of spiritual tools — well, these are all ways I can encourage and support another on their journey to enlightenment and their healing.
When a person embraces that they are the key to their own “salvation,” their Ascension, they will no longer feel the need to play victim. And when there is more movement in this direction, fewer “dramas” of victim-rescuer will be performed.
It is each person’s choice how they wish to play the game.
Blessings,
Joanie
