[Zingdad]

Hello Wolfke

@wolfke74 wrote:

So when we are dreaming, we dream a dream in a dream

LOL! Yep, that is pretty much it! And to add confusion to the matter – I have even had dreams in which I was dreaming! I woke up and then a bit later woke up AGAIN. Dreams of dreams of dreams of dreams… WOW! 🙂

@wolfke74 wrote:

Lately I am dreaming a lot of dreams when , to say it in the old term “flying saucers” coming by. Maybe it is my desire how it feels to see something like that before it is actually happening.

This could be a number of things. It could simply be your desire manifesting or you could be working in the collective consciousness of the planet. There is MUCH going on with regard to visitation from other planets right now. Your higher-self is obviously aware of this and maybe this is what you are tapping into? There will be more about this in a response to another question later on…

@wolfke74 wrote:

I still have a question for Zingdad or 8 to answer: When I was reading the story I was thinking by “déja-vu”. I had in my life quite of number “déja-vu’s”. Is this because we experienced a scenario in a dreamworld? Or is this a memory of my Higher-Self (because I read somewhere that our higher-selfs already lived all the lives , including the live I am living now).

Interesting question! I’ll let 8 respond:
@8 wrote:

Just as the contents of your dreams can actually be one of many things, so to can the experience you have called “déja-vu”. Though there are a number of reasons you might experience this I will highlight the most common and the most relevant to the ascending soul. It is the realisation that time is an illusion. There really is no such thing. All time is NOW. All places are HERE. There is really only NOW HERE. Or NOWHERE. But you are experiencing a very powerful illusion that there is indeed time and space. That there is a “previous” and a “later” and that there is a “here” and a “there”. But your Inner-Self has, a much less powerful version of this illusion. Your Inner-Self sees your entire life, from beginning to end as one thing and as Right Now. It also sees all your alternate “possible and probable lifetimes as Right Now. The lifetime you are observing is only a small part of the greater picture which is You. But before I digress. Before you incarnated you spent some time in preparation for this lifetime. You reviewed some of the events you would be experiencing. Sometimes déja-vu occurs when you remember something you knew would be coming… and here it is! Sometimes déja-vu is when your consciousness and the consciousness of your Inner-Self draw nearer to each other. You become aware that the things that you are experiencing are all already created. You are simply the part of self that is navigating that which was already created.

These are complex subjects and can be hard to comprehend for those that are inside the illusion of the 3D realm. My suggestion therefore is to simply enjoy the moment as being one which you are sharing with your Inner-Self.

If you wish to better understand the complexity of dimensional realms then I can suggest you might enjoy a discussion that I had with Zingdad on that very topic which you can read here.

Okay! That is interesting, thanks 8. I haven’t often had déja-vu. But the once of twice I did it was powerful stuff. Once my lady-love, Lisa, and I were on holiday in Brugge in Belgium. It was our first visit there and so there was NO WAY I could have known anything about the place. We were walking around the town and suddenly this strange feeling came over me as if I could “remember” what lay ahead of us. I turned to Lisa and began describing what we would be seeing further ahead on our walk. We were both pretty blown away when it all turned out exactly as I said it would. And then the feeling left and I was back to being a tourist walking around that beautiful old town…

[Zingdad]

…well thank you for your vigilance and your tireless presence anyway!

🙂

It’s good to have you here my friend.

[Zingdad]

Hi Silver

Something odd is afoot. The 5 posts you tried to disapprove were semi-deleted. Their content is gone but the links still appear in the “new threads” section. So I’m not sure what’s up with that. But I have completely removed the threads and banned the originators for good measure!

[Zingdad]

I have an old dog. He’s really old. About 17 or something. And he is very nearly stone deaf. But when you say his name he pricks up his ears and looks around. I guess I’m a bit like my old dog. My name was mentioned on this thread and here I am. LOL

John there is just one thing that I “get” for you and it is this: that you should endeavour to love yourself magnificently. I understand that you have learned a lot in this life about service. You have had much thrown at you and learned a lot about courage and forbearance too. But – if my intuitive ear is working right – I believe you have not found your your way to simply loving yourself, as you are, without reservation. And John, I humbly submit, that THIS is where the gate to heaven lies. It lies in self-love. So, if I may be so bold, I am going to suggest to you that you give yourself some homework. It goes like this:

1. Step outside of yourself for a moment. Imagine for a moment that you are not this person called John. Imagine instead that you know him very well but are not him.
2. Now think. What would make your dear, beloved friend, John, feel truly loved, valued and cherished. What would show John that he is accepted and loved right now, as he is. Can you come up with something like that?
3. Do it. And when you do it be conscious that this is you, telling yourself how much you love, appreciate and value yourself just as you are.

See how that goes for you and consider repeating steps 1 to 3 at least once a week. Try to keep it fresh and creative – because of course you don’t want to bore your beloved friend, John, with an unimaginative, repetitive expression of your love for him, do you? 🙂

See how your life is changed by this. I think you’ll be amazed.

~Z~

[Zingdad]

@wolfke74 wrote:

Hi Zingdad,

Thanks for your uplifting answer. I had to read it more then once to feel/see it for what it is, in my heart. Certainly this part that you wrote:

“And then get on with what your heart says you must still do in this “old” world.

And then it hit me. No more hiding…so I decided to put my own journey online for everybody to read on my blog. But it is still a process in the making because I struggle a bit too how I can write my side of the story. My blog: http://lisasgeomagic.blogspot.com/

I hope you don’t mind that I ask another question, because I am full with questions.

Hi Wolfke

Awesome blog! After answering here I’ll go and read some more.

And I don’t mind more questions at all!

@wolfke74 wrote:

This is actually a question for 8:

Since a few weeks/months I am dreaming extraordinary dreams. And that kept me wondering, what are dreams?

I look the definition up online and got this: A series of images, ideas, emotions, and sensations occurring involuntarily in the mind during certain stages of sleep.

So what are dreams? And if they are real, are we really experiences these dream on another level of dimension? And what happens when we dream, because I read somewhere (can’t remember where) that we leave our body and coming back in our body during dreaming/sleeping?

I’ll pass you over to 8…

@8 wrote:

I greet you, Wolfke. You ask what dreams are.

Let me begin by saying that you are a far more powerful creator being than you can now imagine. The experience of being incarnated as a human being is actually an incredibly limiting and constrictive experience. But when you go to sleep you are somewhat released from some of these restrictions and your creator mind is given a little more freedom to play. What it DOES with that freedom will vary greatly from dream to dream and from person to person.

Dreams which seem to play out in a world with people and places are actually created by you in a realm that lies at a density very near to your own. You could call it the “imaginal realm”. It is as much a “real place” as your current reality is but the rules by which that reality is created are quite different from your current reality. Which is why you can, for example, fly in your dreams if you choose. You can also just “imagine” things into being in that realm. In that realm, what you imagine is what is true. Which can be a wonderful thing if you are good at imagining happy things. It can also be uncomfortable if you get lost in imaging fearful things. This is the origin of nightmares, you see.

But this “imaginal realm” can also be used to great purpose. You can, for example, meet your Inner-Self and your Spirit Guide there and be taught the lessons your are desiring to learn. Usually you will be show these things in a very practical experiential way – so you will play out scenarios in which you can see how their lesson is applicable.

Another great use for the imaginal realm is to try out things that you wish to experience without having to create a whole new incarnation. If you wanted to know, for example, what it might be like to be a soldier fighting a war then you could have that as a dream and you could see how you react to a particular scenario without the considerable investment in soul-energy that is a whole other incarnation.

Sometimes you will also be able to play out part of alternate time lines in the imaginal realm. Perhaps you are in a happy and stable relationship but there is someone with whom you, on a deeper level, wondered what it might be like to have a romantic connection. It might be that you choose to play some part of this out in the imaginal realm while you dream.

I give you a few random examples just to impart the idea: The world of dreams is a realm in which you, your soul-family and those with whom you are associated in spirit can work and play. Almost all dreams are not recalled when you awaken. There is much the “waking self” cannot know – for any number of reasons – and dreams that are about these matters are not recalled. But if you notice that your dreams seem to be particularly vivid or meaningful and if you awaken remembering your dreams then I would urge you to keep what is sometimes called a “dream diary”. On waking, simply jot down some key words describing the dream. You can come back later and see what you have written. If you do this you will be very surprised what your dreams have to teach!

And then there is also something else to remember. This life that you are now living is also, actually, a dream. In due course you will “wake up” from this life and marvel at how interesting it was, how much you learned from it and how “real” it seemed. For indeed, your whole life is just a dream to a greater version of you.

May you have wonderful dreams!

Thank you 8! What an amazing thought to think of waking up from this life! I hope this answers your question, Wolfke?

[Zingdad]

@Nekodos wrote:

Hello Zingdad, everyone!

What a wonderfull initiative!! Too bad nobody’s asking questions anymore… I love reading the questions and answers, so I’d like to encourage anyone that has a question to come and ask it! As for my own question…I’m not quite sure how to put this, but I’ll give it a try.

Hi Nekodos

Great to have you here. As you can see it does take me a long time sometimes to respond. But I do always get there eventually when I can make the time and be in the right frame of mind.

@Nekodos wrote:

Just like Syme, getting in contact with my soul-family is very high on my wish-list. So I was very keen to find out what Zingdad had to offer in response to his questions. And there it was, hitting me in the face like a ten-ton hammer.

@Zingdad wrote:

The fourth is that this will never, ever “prove” itself to you. To play this “game” is to actively choose to play with uncertainty and doubt. Any attempt to force “proof” will result in distortions in your communication and will most likely result in the whole thing being proved false.

For me that means as much as: Game over. You may not insert another coin!

So my question is, if I’m not willing to accept anything as long as I don’t have prove, should I just give up on the idea of ever establishing contact with spirit?

My friend you ask an important question. This issue of “proof” and undeniability ” is a tough one. I struggled with it for a long time and I know of other people that struggle with it also. We want to know for sure, without doubt that the thing is SO or else why would we trust it, right? I feel your concern!

However. The simple truth (from my perspective) is that:
1. “proof” is not what it seems and
2. seeking proof will actually impede your growth

Let me deal with those things one-by-one.
Firstly. Is there anything that you CAN actually prove beyond all doubt and question? Anything at all? I would like to make the perhaps surprising assertion that nothing can actually be proven. Let us take science as a model. Science doesn’t offer us “proof”. Science offers us hypotheses that fit the data available. If we test the hypothesis experimentally and it continues to fit the data under all kinds of different conditions we call it “proven” and accept it as “fact” but, over and over again science shows us that there are always exceptions that come along to upset the apple-cart and force us to re-evaluate those “facts” and come up with a new, improved hypothesis. Then the process starts again.

And where are we now with science? The fundamental building blocks of science… the most essential elements upon which all theories and ideas are built are these things: time, space, matter, energy and light. Pretty much every scientific theory starts with these things and builds on them. And yet we don’t have a clue what any of these things are! Do yourself a favour: see if you can find a working, scientifically valid definition of what “time” is or a description of how it works.

You won’t find one because there isn’t one. No one knows what “time” is. And yet, almost every physics theory or experiment is predicated, at some point, on measuring or defining something in relation to time! So what is the value of the “proof” if it relies on something else that is utterly unknown.

And the same thing is true for “matter”. Everything we can interact with is “matter” but what IS it? Atoms? Yeah, okay but what are atoms? If you just keep asking the question you get to sub-atomic particles that we have some vague descriptions of how they behave but no idea at all of what they ARE. So again… all the “proofs” that are based upon matter are actually irrelevant if we don’t even know what we are talking about.

My point here is that “proof”, if you dig a bit, turns out to always be built on a few layers of things we think we know, and then underneath it all is always something that we don’t know. All “proofs” are like buildings without a foundation.

Simple question:
Can you PROVE to me that you exist?

You can’t.

I have had some pretty vivid dreams in my life. How can I know for sure this is not another dream and that you are not just a figment of my imagination? Or maybe you are not a real person and just a very clever computer programme that I am interacting with. You can’t prove to me – in such a way that I absolutely cannot doubt – that you even exist.

Neither can I prove that I exist to you!

There is a lot more I can say in this direction but I think you will understand where I am going: nothing is ultimately provable. The very idea of “proof” is becoming redundant.

And this is just as well! Because the idea that something should be “provable” is an idea that limits the growth of the one holding that idea.

Why?

Because the simple fact of our reality is that everything changes. Change is the one and only constant. There is not one thing anywhere ever that does not change. And the concept of “proof” is that you must be able to pin something down so that it cannot be anything other than what you say it is. It cannot change. Well this cannot happen.

And more than that. If I can PROVE something to you in such a way that you cannot doubt it then I take away from you your free-will right to see it any other way than what I say. I block you from your inalienable right to be a creator being and to create what you observe as you desire.

But this cannot be done! I cannot make you other than what you are! I cannot stop you from being a creator being. I cannot limit you. The closest I can come to this is to, maybe, convince you or trick you into agreeing with me that what I have is proof and you are not allowed to question it or doubt it. Is that not the game religions have always played? Is that not the game our governments and other “authorities” very often play? They say “this is The Truth” and if you argue or doubt then you are to be punished. So we generally comply and agree that that is The Truth even when our hearts know otherwise.

But the time for this mode of being is now coming to an end. People are awakening. They are discovering that the only truth they need to heed is what is written in their own hearts. Each being knows its own truth – if that being will but trust it. And this is the meaning of the statement I made about embracing uncertainty and doubt. You need to be willing to “play” without the experience “proving” itself to you. Because no independent verifiable external proof will come that you cannot also doubt.

But take heart my friend! What WILL come is something much finer! As you travel this road you will discover in yourself a KNOWING. You will discover that all the proof you ever need is right there inside you. You will KNOW when a thing is right and true for you and you will KNOW when it is not. And that is far better than proof. Because it is yours and no external validation is necessary.

A final thought, Nekodos:
Have you ever really asked yourself the question “who am I?”
Try to answer that question without speaking about things that can and will change. So not your job, not your relationships, not the things you do… none of that stuff. And, if you believe in life-after-death then who are you when are no longer even in a human form? Who are you REALLY.

Its a tough question and it has given philosophers since time began a headache. And the reason is that YOU cannot be defined. Because you are an inseparable part of The One, which is infinite. And the maths of infinity is such that you cannot divide infinity. So this means that you too are infinite. This means that Who You Really Are has no boundaries, no limits and no restrictions. And a definition is actually just a boundary. If you define yourself as something you are at the same time saying you are NOT something else. This is a boundary. But you are not definable.

And, you see, all things are, in the same way, a part of The Oneness. This means all things are, at their core, beyond definition.

Does it not seem then like we need to get ready to live without proofs and definitions?

And if that sounds like a horrible chaotic way to live then I can assure you there IS a way to deal with it that is wonderfully liberating and empowering. It is for you to observe what is true for you in any given moment and accept that that is what it is: something that is true at that moment. And then allow that that will at some point in the future, also change. Allow also that RIGHT NOW that thing is also untrue for someone else.

And THIS is what is true from me. But I accept completely that it might not be so for you. 🙂

[Zingdad]

Hello and welcome

Your greeting post show a startling resemblance to two others:
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and
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You would perhaps be triplets? 😆

But seriously… newcomers are welcome. Sock puppets not so very much.

[Zingdad]

Hello and welcome

Care to tell us a little more about yourself and your interests?

[Zingdad]

Hi and welcome to BoL!

Tell us a little about yourself… your interests… what brought you here.

Good to have you along!

[Zingdad]

@Guest wrote:

Hi Zingdad,

I will be very pleased to hear from Adamu and your friends about this astronomic event wich is happening now in our binary solar system. I am publishing as much information as I can on LaPresseGalactique.com about this event wich was predicted by the Mayan calendar long time ago. The following is a copy of an article posted on february 21, 2011. Heartly thanks ! Louis

Hello Louis!

How nice it is to have you visiting here my Friend. And what a wonderful website you have! I wish I was fluent in French so that I could enjoy it without Google translations.

Louis, I myself have not studied this subject at great depth and so I don’t have a great deal of info in my “conscious mind” about this. Which means I give Adamu limited scope to answer your question. But I will do my best to just “get out the way” and let him address you directly:

@Guest wrote:

Nibiru/Planet X Event Timeline

Adamu: My dear friend. I commend you on your hard work on behalf of those seeking insight and understanding into current and forthcoming events. You do good work.

There are a few thoughts I would offer you. The first is that your dates point to very precise events and time tables. I would humbly suggest that you hold lightly to such things. Your essential understanding is very good but if you cling to tightly to dates you are following the wrong compass. Events now are about inner-truth and following your heart. The outer-truth of the Mayan calendar and such tools is really just to point you in the right direction, rather than to be slavishly attended to.

I can confirm that there is a very large heavenly body moving in towards your solar system at this juncture of your space-time. It has for some time now been making its presence felt in the variations of your solar system’s weather. There are those that have attempted to explain this away with fairy tales about greenhouse gasses and the like. This is not true. The changes you have experienced in your planetary weather and, much more dramatically, in geologic instability, are the result of the passage of this large object. But not only this object. There is, in addition to this, a zone of much heightened background energy though which your solar system is now passing. These are indeed dramatic times on Planet Earth.

You have also understood correctly that there will be a series of geological and climatic events. Each one will be more intense than the last. As I speak to you now your world is in the aftermath of one such event in Japan. This was not the first such event and it will not be the last. This is true.

This is a time for listening very carefully to your heart. For not being swayed by fear. For holding true to your trust in yourself. This is a time for preparedness and being willing to help your fellow human being. We are giving birth to a whole new reality now and the birth process can be a little bumpy.

My friend there is something I will share with you that might help you to make sense of the events in your heavens. It is something that has not been understood by your planets astro-physicists. The story goes like this:
Gravity is the attraction of all matter working on Itself as it strives to collapse back to Oneness. There are forces that keep all this matter apart but, yes, gravity is that which works to return all matter to Oneness.
But you see the reality you are able to perceive around you and though your telescopes is really just a very, very small part of the true picture. There are many dimensions other than your own. And there is much matter existing at these other dimensions. And this is the part that confuses your astronomers and astro-physicists. They do not understand how an area of space that has no matter in it can exert a gravitational force on the matter around it. This is because, while there is no matter there AT YOUR DIMENSIONAL LEVEL, there certainly is matter at other dimensional levels. So there is gravity… but no visible matter. And this they call “Dark Matter”.
Now, if you follow my reasoning you will understand that I am telling you that a celestial body, that exists at OTHER DIMENSIONS might pass by the vicinity of your planet. Your planet will respond to its influence. Your planets tides will be perturbed. Geological stability will be impacted. There will be pressures upon the zones of higher plasticity that exist under the planet’s crust. You can expect torsion, fissures, volcanic activity. You can expect slippages of tectonic plates – which are experienced as earthquakes. And your planet is not the only one that will be impacted. Your sun will also respond with similar increases in activity. And as your sun and this other body interact so you can expect the directionality of the solar winds to change.

But now I am attempting to discuss matters that my dear Zingdad is not able to follow. I am unable to communicate all that I might have liked to. But I am sure you get the gist? A sufficient large celestial body that exists entirely at other dimensional levels can have dramatic impact on your lives in your reality whilst not being at all visible to your telescopes – because, quite simply, it does not exist at your dimensional level.

Now maybe you will begin to be able to understand the Nibiru/ Elenin dichotomy a little better.

A normal comet traversing your solar system will not have the impact you are experiencing. The only concern might be about a direct earth impact. Anything else would, at most, provide you with a bit of a light-show at night. Elenin will not impact Earth and is not of any great concern to you. That which is known as Nibiru is already causing considerable impact and will continue to do so. But it will also continue to be denied by many – and with good reason. It cannot be observed with normal optical devices. It is, at your level of reality, dark matter.

This is a complicated subject that I have addressed in a cursory fashion. I hope this offers you some insight into the situation.

I wish you well in these climactic times,
Adamu.

[Zingdad]

@Joanie wrote:

Oh, Zingdad, Delight, Joy-Divine, 8, Adamu, and the soul family! What a marveous response! I am thrilled. Just so grateful that you asked ME! Bringing it back to the soul… That’s what it’s about. I get it. I appreciate this and fully understand what was imparted to me.

How wonderful! Thank you Joanie! Yes, of course this is the truth. None can know our truth better than we ourselves can. And what wondrous revelations you are willing and able to have of yourself for yourself!

I loved what you got about your purpose from David. That your purpose is “to be you”. This is very similar to what I received for myself. That I am to be the part of The Oneness that holds my perspective. If I go to my heart and be the truest version of myself… then THAT is my purpose. Simple!

But sometimes so east to forget! 🙂

Thank you for your Light, dear Joanie.
~Z~

[Zingdad]

@wolfke74 wrote:

Hi Zingdad,

It has been a long time since I read the Ascension papers. The reason is I felt I needed a break from it and second I just gave birth to my baby girl Nolwazi what means “mother of knowledge”. She is born on our wedding anniversary, 15 december.

Hello Wolfke!

How wonderful to chat to you again. Congratulations on the birth of your baby girl! May she bear much knowledge and light into the world.

Thank you for your kind words I cannot tell you how happy it makes me to hear my work is meaningful to you.

You ask a great question. You ask about the programming we watch on TV and how these affect us on our journey. You ask, for example, @wolfke74 wrote:

Like if you would like to watch movies of series or other that is only about “evil” ? would it affect you?

Wolfke, in my view the answer is it certainly does!

With our thoughts we create our reality. When we watch TV, listen to music, read the newspaper, play computer-games… or anything like this, then we are giving this material access to our thoughts. We can choose positive, light-filled material and our thoughts are enriched. Or we can choose negative, dark material and our thoughts are contaminated. This is 100% true for me and it is also what I have experienced in my life. As I become more aware of the programming I put into my consciousness and choose higher-vibration programming so I my reality changes. I become less fear-based and more love-based. As I become so, so my world reflects this back at me.

It doesn’t mean I never pick up a newspaper at all any more. It just means that, when I do, then I am very aware that I am observing someone else’s biases and interpretations and I make an effort to not just accept this as “the truth” or “the way it is”. Taking this approach makes things like TV programmes and the news a lot less compelling though. I become less and less interested in it. And really negative “horror” type shows fall off the menu entirely.

You also asked:
@wolfke74 wrote:

Not long ago I start to see myself in another “?” , “earth” were I live with my family in a forest with big tall trees. Our house is barely visible because it’s walls reflects the nature surroundings…and we have a little vegetable garden were people who come by can take of it…and if you walk a bit further you come out to a lake and in the distance are mountains and on the other side I see very very tall buildings that reach the sky….and there is silence that is only be broken by the laughs of my family…and than it stops….
Is this a story that I can realize….? Our is it just my “imagination”?

My dear friend! I understand COMPLETELY what you are talking about. I have had such wonderful deep experiences of oneness with our mother Earth… being still in nature and then something seems to “click over” and suddenly I know that I am ONE with Life and ONE with nature. I see it with my eyes AND my heart. It is wonderful. Or maybe ONE-derful. 🙂

Wolfke, I would say to you that we are, right now, in a state of transition. We are living thought the death of the old world and, at the same time, the birth of a new world. We are in between the two. What you experience when you feel that connection and belonging is a taste of the new world to come. This is how your every moment will be… and more so! But we are not quite there yet. The old world is still here and we still need to complete our final farewells to it. There is still much to be done and little time to do it in. So love those moments of oneness, cherish them. Know you are being called to from the next world. And then get on with what your heart says you must still do in this “old” world.

For me, it means getting the word out and helping others to see that they can create their own new reality and that there is such a wondrous new world awaiting them. That is what I must still do. Only you can know what work you still have to do.

But certainly, I will see you on the other side on our New Earth. How very exciting this is!

[Zingdad]

I moved this in here because, frankly, I am baffled.

Most of this kind of nonsense I just delete and ban. But this one is a bit… special. What exactly is this about? Is it a sneaky plan to get people to visit that link? Probably. But why? The link is nothing but a boring article on getting a job as a nurse or something. Boring, boring, boring. But not even selling anything. So why? Is it just to “test the waters” and get a first post approved? If so why is such a incomprehensible load of garbled hog-wash?

So I thought I’d share the mystery over here… and THE BAN! 🙂

[Zingdad]

@jldy wrote:

I have come to the conclusion that you cannot heal someone unless they want to be healed. Theirs and old saying ” Misery Loves Company” and I have found that to be true. Some people instead of looking for help are looking for someone to drag down to their level. The problem I find is that by the time I realize this the damage is done and the recuer needs recuing. 😳
It seems some people are not happy unless they are unhappy which makes it impossible to help them. I no longer allow myself to be drawn in so far to someones problem that it becomes mine

I just want to say that those are some diamond words of wisdom, jldy. Wow. Nothing to add except my “+1” 🙂

[Zingdad]

Hi everyone

I must beg your indulgence. I really don’t have a lot of time to get to spend the time that I would like to on this. But I will keep chipping away and I do hope to get to everyone sooner or later.

Syme, you ask an important question. It’s one I get asked from time to time. You ask:
@Syme wrote:

I would like to connect directly with my Inner Self/Higher Self/God/Life/Guides/s etc.

For so long have I engaged in readings from people who are able to do this, Zingdad yourself, and my other favourite – Neale Donald Walsch, both of you have changed my life completely and has changed lives for those that are near and dear to me.

I know for everyone that this is a different process and works differently for different people and you need to do what it right for you. But I have not been able to work out what is right for me.

I get frustrated at times that when I sit still and ask for a conversation – nothing comes through.

I don’t want to talk about Life, The Universe and Everything, these are things that are covered well by Zingdad and Neale.

I wish to discuss my loved ones life purposes. To understand the paths that they are travelling and to offer assistance, if asked, how they can change things so that they do not drift off the path.

Make sense?

It fascinates me to read books like Robert Schwartz’s – to be able to delve into a person’s pre birth planning process astounds me and I feel I could bring so much more love and light into peoples lives if I was able to relay this information to them. It will also help me to understand my loved ones purposes in their lives, how it is that they are with me and I am with them. To be able to offer comfort in times of need.

I don’t want to connect for some self indulgent reason of self satisfaction.

My heart yearns to have a conversation for the betterment of others.

I know my Guide is waiting for me – I just want to say “Hello”.

Any tips?

Syme, I have a few thoughts to offer you.
The first is that there is nothing you have to do (or even can do) to persuade your Spirit Family (guides, higher-self, etc.) to make contact and have a conversation with you. They are not avoiding you. They are not playing hide-and-seek with you. When you talk to them they hear you loud and clear. When you ask questions they immediately answer. They love you more than you can imagine and they desire contact with you as much as you do with them.

If this is true, then why can you not hear them, right?

Quite simply because we chose to come here beyond the Veil where we are disconnected from them. This is what it is like to be here. We feel alone, we experience fear, we don’t know who we really are and we are disconnected from the Oneness. These things are a direct result of being here, beyond the Veil of Unknowing.

But clearly it IS possible to connect. There are many doing it in very public fashion. So what gives?

If we can take a step back then I’ll explain: The communication you yearn for is heart-to-heart, soul-to-soul communion. It is the method all beings of unity-consciousness use to communicate. It works like this: If you and I are One, then, at the level of Oneness, I can share anything with you. I can share a thought, a feeling, an idea, an experience… anything at all with you. Then my experience IS your experience. Then you know EXACTLY what I am trying to communicate with you. This is how higher-order spirit beings communicate. In your soul you remember communicating like this from before you forged your way down into these depths of duality. And the memory of this clear communication gives your a feeling of disquiet. It is somehow “wrong” that you can’t just connect with your most beloved Soul-Family and share with them all your ideas, feelings, questions, discussions, etc. How frustrating it is!

So what now?

There are a few paths you can choose.
The first path is to accept that this is “how it is”. You chose to be here and you did it for a very good reason. You came here TO BE HERE. So you can choose to experience BEING HERE as it is and find peace and joy in that. That is one very good approach. Does it satisfy you?

No?

It didn’t satisfy me either.

The next is to learn to listen in a new way. Your soul-family are constantly in non-verbal communication with you. In all kinds of subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) ways. Sometimes you are told to “slow down” when all the traffic lights are red. Sometimes you are given a message when a book falls open and there is a meaningful passage right there. Sometimes someone will say something to you that is an inspired message for you from your Soul Family. That is the kind of thing I am talking about. The point is to open yourself to what is given to you every day in a million ways. Pay attention and pay heed to what is offered to you. The more you do, the more clear and obvious the communications will become.

I very much do, do this. I open myself to communication and inspiration as much as I can. I find doing this makes me that much more “sensitive” to communication.

So good.

But you are asking for something a little more than this. Let me tell you what I know about direct, conscious, meaningful communication through the veil.

The first thing is that it can be done (obviously).
The second is that EVERYONE can do it.
The third is that there are two main “styles” of bringing info though – “conscious communication” and “trance communication”. In the former case you are there to ask questions and get answers etc. In the later case you go to sleep and your body becomes an instrument for a spirit being to talk though and you are not present for the process. I have nothing against trance channelling at all but I can’t speak about it from personal experience. I have only ever done conscious communication.
If you do conscious communication then you have to bear in mind that you are “there” to interfere with the communication. It is very easy to influence what you get. It is easy to pull what you are receiving out of shape with your own will, desires or preconceptions. It takes some practice to differentiate between what really comes from another being and what you want this other being to say. With conscious communication you also have the limitation that you can’t “receive” something that you can not think. For example: I could not receive in a language that I cannot already speak. I cannot receive complex mathematical equations in which I have no training. That kind of thing.
The fourth is that this will never, ever “prove” itself to you. To play this “game” is to actively choose to play with uncertainty and doubt. Any attempt to force “proof” will result in distortions in your communication and will most likely result in the whole thing being proved false. So, for example, asking your guides to tell you the number of the lotto will not work. Playing parlour games (how many stones in my hand, what is my cousins name, etc) will fail. You will probably get roughly statistically average results. You will probably get frustrated and lose interest.
But what if you have the ability to reside in that state of ambiguity and let it just be what it is and see what you can learn about yourself and life?
Well, then you might be in for an interesting ride!

But HOW? Right? You want to know how to do this in practical terms.

Well this part is the easy part. Doing it is a piece of cake. The actual DOING is definitly not the tough part. So let me give you one possible beginning exercise that you can do right now that will start you out talking to your Spirit Guide. Then I’ll talk about the “tough part” 🙂

1. Pick a relaxed day. Like a Sunday when you don’t have a lot of stress. Until you get comfortable with this you are going to want the minimum “psychic noise” in your consciousness.
2. Do something peaceful and relaxing like going for a long walk. Or better even, meditate.
3. Sit down somewhere that you will not be bothered or interrupted and where you feel comfortable and “at home”.
4. Set your intent. Light a candle or an incense stick as you declare with firm conviction a statement something like:
“I will now open my heart to communication from my Spirit Guide. This communication passes through the pure bright white light of the One and I permit no interference.”
5. Clear your mind and be at peace.
6. Take up the pen and write something to your Spirit Guide like
“Hello, are you there?”
7. Then, without hesitation, without thinking or pausing, simply put the pen on the next line and write the first thing that comes to mind. Like:
“Of course I am here. Where else would I ever be?”
Or whatever you get.
8. Repeat steps 6 and 7 for as long as you like.

And that is all there is to it.

More or less.

And now comes the “tough part”. Already you can see the problem, right? You are thinking “but I am just creating this whole conversation!”
Shall I tell you what 8 said to me when I told him that? He said “of course you are, but that doesn’t make it any less true!”

The truth is you ARE creating the conversation. It occurs in your mind. It is not possible to have the conversation without creating it. Right?

Then the next objection arrives: “But I am just having this conversation with myself!”
Yes. You are. There is only ONE of us here. Who else would you be talking to?

What is potentially miraculous about this process though, is that you are opening yourself to communication with a part of yourself that holds insight, truth and wisdom that you are not consciously aware of holding. It holds the potential to surprise and delight you. If you let it. If you are willing to go with it and allow for the ambiguity. If you are willing to PLAY. If you can resist the urge to get all serious about this. Then you might just allow yourself to show yourself some truly breath-taking truths and wisdom. If, on the other hand you get all serious about this or think it is IMPORTANT BUSINESS or if you wind your ego up around this you will, I assure you, feel the sharp end of the Veil. You’ll show yourself all the reasons why this is wrong, fake, self-delusion and doubtful.

So my suggestion is to play, play, play. Let it be just fun and light for a good while. Don’t concern yourself with “is it true” or any such thing for a while. Get comfortable with the process of receiving. Have wonderful conversations with your soul-family. Ask them everything under the sun. And Syme there is no reason whatsoever not to ask frivolous, self-indulgent questions! Ask because you want to know! This is your closest most beloved Family! They don’t need you to be all selfless and service-oriented about this! Have fun. Talk to them. Share everything with them. And then, as you go so you will find a kind of confidence in it. You will, by the “feel” of the thing, begin to know the difference between “clear, true communication”, “interfered with communication” and your own ego, desires and preconceptions getting in the way. This knowing will come to you. And then you’ll have a talent honed, practised and ready to use in service – if this is what you desire.

But these are just my thoughts and my perspectives on this subject based upon my experiences. I’m sure there are other ways to do this and other experiences that are equally valid.

I wish you a delightful journey of discovery!
~Z~

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